Tempted to feel the pleasure of blood stained lips,
They’d exhale a few clouds and wonder where they came from.
Despite being given a map of how as human beings we are supposed to live out our lives, we still get anxious on what to do with the time that is given to us. Time might be an illusion even a figment of our imagination, but as much as we define time it has come to define us. Racing thoughts, racing emotions, drum-like heartbeats, and glitching eye lids unable to adjust to the light.
Because of this, I tend to blame my endless existential thoughts on the nanoseconds it takes for my brain to quench its thirst on oxygen.
You can never trust the human brain, especially when it’s the source of your many, many minds that fathom themselves in those time consuming nanoseconds.
They advised us to seek out Meditation,
They said you should meditate to decrease how much your default mode network functions.
Meditate, to control those many minds. To stop the ‘high you get from visiting a different galaxy that you feel is so real, but know only exists within yourself.
Some days that high is all we cling to, our casual escape.
But by being more in tune with reality, your consciousness gains the ability to enjoy manipulating your bundle of sensations and emotions.
Everyday we pretend to manipulate people’s perceptions of who we are,
But To define is to limit.
You reach a point where you label their image of madness as “art”;
The art of jumping on the spectrum of being a child to an adult in a matter of seconds.
The art of being so vulnerable that you call it being creative, because only the insane express their thoughts and emotions so freely.
By allowing the child to die, you are eliminating the beautiful instinct of being passionately curious,
The moment you start having memories is the moment you become a conscious being,
When you can look in the mirror and know it’s you looking back, (or is it you in a parallel universe? Hah ok)
When you can have a fluid identity, because no one really has one set of rigid personality traits that they express consistently.
By allowing the adult to die on the other hand,
Is something that makes me smile.
That sounds psychotic, and it might be.
Allowing the adult to die is removing the ideologies we crave to identify with so are not considered uninvolved in this world,
Allowing the adult to die is throwing religion away and using awe as therapy,
Allowing the adult to die,
Is enjoying the ecstatic biological masterpiece of being alive,
To figure out how to smile and how to appreciate sadness.
In a sense, other than having the need to work and make a living, to make love, to nurture a family, to have a retirement plan, to die.
We have the need to explore, to expand our humanity, to appreciate everything and nothing all at once, to find peace and chaos all at once, to embrace our many, many minds and also be able to silence them.
When we are in an adult’s mindset we are occasionally overwhelmed by the reality of having the world in our hands, having our lives as the mascara that decorates our lashes,
the same mascara you wipe away before you sleep.
We have the ability to end our lives at any moment, and the ability to make it extraordinary.
Too many minds,
A mind for thoughts,
A mind for emotions,
A mind for people,
A mind for society,
A mind for corrupt governments,
A mind for virtual reality,
A mind for the state of the universe,
A mind for the fabric of time.
To reach a state of no mind, must be magic,
To reach a state of harmony across all branched minds,
At least to me it seems to be.
I inhaled the thick fog cradling our existence,
And slowly exhaled a bubble of clear darkness that smiled at us with a few stars forming constellations.
I slowly turned my gaze towards him,
He sat to my left and I could sense his confusion and childlike fear materializing and increasing the volume of the fog.
I wanted to hold his hand, to talk to him, to assure him things will turn out fine.
No words were formed, sound bites dissappeared as I found myself getting lost in his eyes.
When my dark brown almond eyes stumbled upon his, I couldn’t help but notice how his iris changed colors mirroring autumn’s leaves.
Shifting from dark green, to green mixed with auburn to brown.
His eyes now brown, absorbing light from every corner; he turned to me.
I smiled lazily,
Shifting my gaze to the clouds.
I was avoiding reality,
avoiding the knot in my stomach, avoiding the sadness I forcefully swallowed and digested.
My emotions fluctuate,
They change seasonally and so do you.
I could have loved you,
But I never knew you.
You could have loved me,
But you will probably never know me.
Stapling a measuring tape on your chest and walking away with my end, I have become numb. This distance was the result of the situation and my choice to fear the risk.
The risk of falling for you and struggling to recover.
But what if,
What If autumn fixates on green?
Would your pupils dilate and fill you up with language the second you perceive me?
Would you lose sense of time and hold me close to you as a wormhole throws us into another dimension?
I want you to stay.
Actually, I want you to leave.
What might have been or could be is not something we could possibly know.
I might never see you again,
And yet our paths might intersect causing both our cars to collide,
Causing an explosion.
Fireworks would penetrate the fog you created in celebration,
The view will leave you awe struck and frozen with fear.
Unexpected collisions cause concern,
Especially when you never noticed your green infiltrating my brown.
Are you happy that your green infiltrated my brown?
It’s ironic, despite how many times I get stabbed I still mistaken a knife for a flower.
I still assume that things are better than they seem.
I still assume that people are as raw as I tend to believe I am,
That they will be honest and genuine as much as I try to be.
I would scavenge the scraps you left hoping it’s a trail leading to hope,
Instead I ended up in a wicked home where all the host wanted to do was watch me burn.
From the scent you oozed leaving me unconscious,
I externalized my fantasies,
Painting your reality with my personal misconception.
I saw what I wanted to see,
I interpreted what I wanted to interpret.
I judged you based on the portrait I thought was reality,
Which made the odds never in your favor,
Or did they become all in your favor?
When my breath became as hesitant as my smile,
I knew I began to touch the thought of me not being good enough, so I stopped trying.
I stopped trying and your charming words now mean nothing to me.
I stopped trying and your enigma is now a disregarded, crumpled paper waiting to be picked up.
A crumpled paper labeled as “Flawed”,
But looking at this war zone we label as life, I didn’t think you or I could be anything else but flawed.
You are something different,
Something I tried too hard to know.
You are a confused child that I want to wrap with a blanket and keep him warm.
You are a contagious smile,
With eyes as deep as an ocean.
You know not how to love or how to be loved,
Nor do I.
You know not how to understand the other or how to understand yourself,
Nor do I.
An atom that fears sharing it’s electrons,
Even when the other willingly gave you hers, and became unstable.
I offered you flowers,
But instead of planting them in the rich soil you watched them wilt;
I never liked offering or being offered flowers , and if I was a tree, you’d be nothing but leaves falling.
Because flowers are an interesting addition to your corner bed side table,
But too hard to care for.
In the end, No one wants roots growing where they can’t reach.
Last night a friend of mine in her first year of Med school informed me of how tomorrow in her anatomy class they’re going to be removing brains from their skulls. Oh and how she’s taking me with her.
I was too excited, I probably analyzed every single reaction I might have the next day.
What would it say about who I am if I threw up,
If I fainted,
If I laughed,
If I cried,
If I stood in shock…
I became so anxious that I got a migraine and ended up passing out.
One of the things people usually cherish and converse about are moments where they lose sense of themselves and all things around them.
I usually experience that briefly when I’m drawing or writing, but today was different.
Today I walked into a lab with a minimum of 10 dead people spread out on tables and first year medicine students starting to cut through skulls in order to remove my favorite organ, the brain.
From the smell you’d think you were on the verge of throwing up, but I couldn’t stop smiling.
Despite the mask on my face, I felt like whoever would lay eyes on me would assume I was possessed by the Joker.
My eyes diluted so much at the sight that my friends said I was ‘glowing’.
I was glowing, I was about to witness an actual brain in its natural habitat.
My heart was beating so fast I just couldn’t stand still, I must have visited every table.
I wasn’t really allowed to do anything because I was a guest.
I also wasn’t allowed to take any photos so I keenly observed every detail so I could have a perfect image of this day imprinted in my memory for years to come.
My friends called me over to see previous brains that were stored. I was jumping up and down I almost pushed the plastic container off the table.
Suddenly Najla looks at me in an odd mischievous way.
“Sumer, hold the brain and Sara will take a photo.”
I was in shock.
“Sumer Hold the brain!”
I stretched out my arm and just ran my finger over the folds.
I wasn’t ready to hold it; she picked it up and placed it in my hands.
Almost instantly I fell into a trance, a human brain was in my hands for barely five seconds and I couldn’t breathe,
I teared up.
“The professor is looking! Put it back, put it back now!”
I couldn’t believe this happened, I thought I wouldn’t be able to even come near a brain until I do my masters.
But I held a brain,
For five seconds, and my thoughts raced like a stream so eager to reach its end.
I teared up,
In my hands I held an organ that manufactures our consciousness,
The origin of our creativity,
Our sense of time.
My brain was being fascinated by itself.
A universe was right in my palms,
And I wasn’t sure if this was real or a figment of a dream I was having.
A ghost in the machine,
There was a soul in here, it most probably died when the person died (Yes, I usually lean towards materialism)
But there was a soul,
Someone’s memories were in there,
Their beliefs, attitudes, music preference, knowledge… A bundle of sensations and emotions. Whatever makes them “them” was in there, and I held it all in my palms.
To whoever this brain belonged to, I’m just going to go ahead and say I adore you.
Because if it wasn’t for you,
If you hadn’t donated your body for science,
I wouldn’t have in a way traveled to another universe in five seconds. One of the best days in my life was falling in love with cognitive neuroscience all over again.
Each time her blood vessels became intoxicated with alcohol,
she spoke of her affair with the Grand design.
She’d look up and point out her favorite galaxy Andromeda.
I never saw that damn thing properly, She’d always point it out when we sat indoors,
All I saw was a rusty roof,
But she’d excused herself; getting lost in the constellations her eyes project onto the ceiling, the walls, the people. She saw stars everywhere.
She’d state how there is no heaven, and there is no hell.
“We are dust, dust!”
She then smiled at the floor;
“We are either gods or worms lurking in the soil.”
She was quite entertaining,
she’d cry then burst out laughing.
I usually hope that’s her reaction because she realizes sadness is attempting to fool her again.
But I could see her clench her fists and grind her teeth.
She’s in constant search of her existential medicine, so I held her hand and let her inner anxieties be released.
She let loose,
Stood up on the chair,
with arms around herself,
She explained “We are all curious yet confused.”
By us all she meant herself.
So I put my hand on her shoulder and handed her another beer,
She politely rejected.
“I squeezed the juice out of Jupiter to quench my thirst.”
She sounded like a British Knight,
I guess every reality comes to play when you’re drunk on Saturday night.
I wore my favorite hat today and walked in the shadows with pride staining the scarf wrapped around my neck and shoulders.
It wasn’t until I saw my reflection on a worn out, green stained window that I noticed death was whispering into my ear all day.
He sat facing me at the table,
And rambled about something that didn’t matter.
I didn’t intend to drift, but i found myself busy observing the features of the man in the background playing the saxophone,
Such beautiful jazz tonight,
He closes his eyes and sways with every breath,
His curly beard electrified from the sound.
He suddenly gasped saying “Let me tell you how I learned to be alone two weeks ago.”
I noticed he was Staring too intensely at me, and it was quite odd.
I’ve never seen him glow so much, it was almost like he swallowed the moon.
Eye contact makes me uncomfortable, so I just looked at his eyebrows at first, then shifted my gaze to the bigger image;
he sat cross-legged, and held his glass of tears
– white wine-
He never held that damn glass properly,
never took pleasure in drinking either.
He chugged wine like a dehydrated child gulps down water,
Akh what a waste of grapes.
We always had these meet ups every week or month or so… We spend it discussing whatever the moment inspired.
Apparently tonight was learning to be alone.
“I learned to be alone at a very young age.” I told him,
Unamused by his statement.
He broke out into hysterical laughs.
I just froze with a raised eyebrow, confused.
“My darling, we are opposites.”
” What’s that supposed to mean?”
” I finally learned to be alone, but you have yet to learn to not be alone.”
“Honey, you need to stop fearing love.”
” I don’t fear love! I just don’t need it.”
” Alright, let me put it this way.
You don’t fear love, and you don’t need it. However, you fear needing love at some point.”
I silently glanced at the floor,
What was I supposed to say?
He leaned towards me, looking kindly into my eyes.
” The thought of love in your mind makes you anxious, you’ve seen too many people lose themselves in their significant other, you’ve witnessed them crave love as it fades, you’ve pushed it away every time it lays a hand on you, and you’ve scared it off when you don’t know how to deal with it.”
So here it is, yet another perspective about Love from a person that has known me for several years.
I avoid discussing the topic;
Relationships, love, attachment…
All things I prefer to avoid,
But no matter how hard you try,
It brushes its hand across your cheek and reminds you of its presence every now and then.
I kept silent,
Learn to let go of being alone?
Not yet anyway.